Sensual
caresses - all about caresses: a practical guide
versione italiana: carezze
How to drive your lover crazy with caresses from head to toe
The body surface is covered by sensitive receivers that make it a huge erogenous sphere. In certain areas, however, the sensitivity is stronger and more pleasant: around the mouth, eyes, ears, nose, anus and vagina. But also many other regions are sensitive: it's the case of the breasts and of the inner side of the elbow. Some erogenous zones are common to all human beings, other are particular to each individual. Anyway, all parts of our body can become erogenous, because the pleasant sensations are a mechanism that can be stimulated. But on the body of any human there are three areas particularly arousing. The first includes all the areas at a distance from the genitals, i.e. the mouth, face, head, neck, arms, back, chest, belly, buttocks and legs. The second is the one of the breasts and the areas close to the genitals. The third includes only the genitals.
Sweet touchings with the lips
Follow with a finger the red shape of the lips starting from the their side area. Follow the upper lip, then continue until the opposite side fold, and go on the other way round, on the lower lip, until you have done all this sensual "itinerary", and restart it. This should cause delicate sensations, since this is an erotic touching which, like any other caress over an erogenous zone, creates a pleasant thrill, and it gives a sense of deep tenderness. This is also an aesthetic choice - there is nothing more beautiful than the lips: think of their shape, red color and how they are so sensual. Sliding a finger inside the mouth and caressing the inner side of the lips and cheeks, of the gums, teeth and tongue is a very sensual type of caress, and arousing, as the contact with any other highly sensitive part of the body. The introduction of a finger inside the mouth of your partner has such a high degree of intimacy that reminds the penetration. It's also a sort of pleasure-fear, it's a challenge similar to the one when a lion trainer puts his head inside a lion's mouth. The teeth instinctively tend to bite, since the mouth is an intimate place. This is why a high degree of trust is necessary in order to accept this kind of contact.
Caressing the lover's mouth with your own, or kissing it, is an exclusive pact of exchanging pleasure. After the genitals' stimulation, nothing is more intense.
Tenderness for the face
As genitals attract caresses, thus depriving the rest of the body of them, the same happens with the lips as the only target for the desire and tenderness concerning the face. And it's in fact the whole face that should be the attraction for an increased attention, since it's uncovered and easy to be reached. Except for the ears, the face doesn't actually have erogenous zones, but it can be the object of tender caresses between lovers, bringing increased pleasure. Specific caresses over the face: thrilling with a few fingers the forehead, temples, cheeks, re-drawing the eyebrows, the curve of the nose, the lips' outline, the face's oval form. It gives a nice emotion holding the lover's face a bit tight between the hands, sliding it backwards, holding the backhead, as well as gently kissing the forehead, nose, cheeks, lips. Caressing the face has something maternal, protective; it makes the person who receives them loved, accepted and valued. While the fingers caress, the eyes admire. They read in the those of the other the trust or mistrust, gratitude or desire. The one who has a lot of affection for the partner, feels like being lost when the eyes meet. The moves must go on with kissing the eyelids, forehead, temples, cheeks, as well as tickling the same parts and also the edge of the nose, cheek bones and the hair.
The labyrinth of the senses? The ear
The ear is an erogenous area pre-eminently. Stimulating it is like throwing another wood in the fire of desire. But this so sensitive part of the body needs the right touch. For example, it should be avoided kissing it because of the sensitiveness of the tympan. But it can be caressed with the tongue or fingers because it's a pleasant labyrinth that needs to be discovered. Its outline, the flap's prominence and the tube, if caressed with gentle caresses, offer thrills of pleasure. With the forefinger and the middle finger, or with the gentle touch of the lips it can be even followed the outline behind the ear and the skin under the auricle.
The bites, delight for the neck
The neck has important vascular centers and nerves. Whether it's delicate or strong, it has always attracted lovers. The woman is interested more in the front and sides of her lover's neck. She likes to leave traces of her teeth while gently biting it, drawing small marks that orientals wear with pride while westerners hide with embarrassment. The man is attracted mainly by the side muscles and backhead. He can bite it gently or more determined, offering her partner gentle thrills. The gentle touch of the teeth can go up to the beginning of the hair, the small holes close to the backhead and on the rest of the neck.
Gentle kisses over the chest
The chest is an erogenous zone for both male and female, and offers many surprises. Close to the clavicles, between the neck and shoulders, for example, there are holes of the skin that make it sensitive and adapted for being gently kissed and licked. Even the armpit and the area around it and until the waist, are very sensitive: if caressed with the finger or nail offers intense thrills. The neck of the female is like a valley where the finger can walk downwards, to the breasts. The male's chest is covered by hair that can be caressed by the female with her exploring hand, giving strong and pleasant sensations. The rib area, close to the belly, is also sensitive. Finally, all the chest is subject to games played by fingers and mouth.
A thrill over the back
From the backhead to the heel, passing by the back, buttocks, the inner side of the knee, all this part of the body is rich in areas where caresses give a pleasant feeling. This extraordinary sensitivity originates from the times when primitive humans used to have intercourse only from behind. It was then necessary to make accessible to the hands and mouth these areas in order to seduce the female, to arouse her, melt her resistance and make her accept the mating. During the intercourse, the caresses had the purpose of keeping the availability of the female and the increase of her pleasure. When human beings started to change the position of the intercourse, the back becomes the privileged field of the hands. While embracing, the partner's hands explore the back of the other and offer it caresses, pinches and gentle scratches in any part of it. At the beginning the hands go smoothly, then step by step they increase their pressure. And when the moment of climax arrives, the hands can even thrust the skin with their fingers or nails.
The skin sensitivity
The skin is a particular tissue that covers our body. It's 18,000 sq.cm. at the adults and 2,500 at infants. The hearing, sight, smell, taste, i.e. the other four senses, cover only a few sq. centimeters. The receivers with whom the skin feels the stresses are approximately 1.5 million. After the brain, the epidermis represents the most important body part. A human being can survive without the hearing, sight, smell, taste, but without the skin and the sense of touch, one cannot live. We are not aware up to what point our epidermis is sensitive. Some of its areas are able to feel pressures of only 2 mg. The back side of the hand and the fingers can feel pressures of 15 mg. The skin shows the pleasure in various ways. First, with its folding (getting the goose flesh) due to a contraction of nerves. Then with the vasodilatation, due to the increase of the blood vessels' diameter, because of the influx of blood. This phenomenon is particularly obvious at the lips, breasts and genitals. It can be present on all the cutaneous surface, as spots. Strangely, if the same vasodilatation is caused by a disease, is painful. But if it's the result of sexual arousing, it gives pleasant sensations. Therefore the vasodilatation turns the caressed skin parts red and even scarlet. Then, the skin, as a result of the blood influx, warms. Expressions as hot kiss, burning of love or being taken by the flames of passion, are not only simple words, but have also a scientific ground.
Stop the taboo over the breasts
Certain women can reach the orgasm only by breast stimulation. This area, due to its structure, if caressed offers a great pleasure and surprinsingly is able to satisfy. Females at their first sexual experiences find it less sensitive, but with the help of their partner, in time the sensitivity will increase. This body part owes its particular sensuality to the epidermics' thinness of the cup and areola, rich in nerves. Under the effect of the arousal, the nipple, areola and mammary gland are filled with blood, as a reaction strictly linked to pleasure, as for any other erogenous zone. The skin in this area is very soft, making the breast one of the joys a male can have while touching. This reminds the first erotic experience, the place of the first emotions, of the first thrills. With his gestures, the male pays attention to the same body part that his mother had offered him while he was still an infant. And during the prelude he re-discovers the tenderness and the joy he felt in those first moments of his life. This primitive condition is undoubtedly present in any of his cells. The male's happiness is doubled by the pleasure his partner feels. This one is contagious and can be communicated by the female in various ways: whispers, sighs, joy, and such other reactions that profoundly hit the male. Offering the breast to her companion is for a woman like offering her own feminity. Because this body part is its symbol, more than the buttocks, situated in a rear position, and genitals, hidden inside the body. For this reason, all art expressions have shown the breasts as a symbol of feminity. However, many women deplore that their lovers do not pay sufficient attention to this part of their body. Yet, there are some specific caresses that should bring an increased joy to the females, since the breast has that magic power, as for any other erogenous area, of irradiating the pleasure in the moment of its capture. You can thrill the cup with one or more fingers, light as feathers, that slide with much attention on the smooth surface, following the curves and improvising lines according to the inspiration in that moment. Or you can draw circles on all the spherical surface and then, with concentric moves, arrive at the areola and nipple thrilling it, as if you were provoking it, and continue to caress the lower hemisphere, now extremely sensitive. The caresses made with a concave hand at this point can be wider and with more pressure. Afterwards the hand can detach and the fingers can wrap around the areola. The heat of the skin increases the excitement. The nipples are already aroused, and at this point the male focuses his attention on them, twists them and tickles them. He can even keep it between two fingers and pich it gently. Or press it and pull it softly, always taking care not to inflict pain.
New itineraries for the mouth
During the prelude, the male (following his natural instinct) caresses the breast even with the lips. How you do that? You can twist it around the nipple and press it. Or gently touching the areola. The nipple must be kissed repeteadly for short periods of time. The caresses performed with the lips can always become more intense and erotic. Starting from the nipple you can kiss it very slowly and increase the intensity of the kiss also on the areola (together with the nipple). You can devote it the same gestures of a profound kiss. Any bite here must be either avoided or made with extreme caution. The teeth must act as if they were holding inside a pice of ice. You can go on with the same caresses and kisses for both breasts. Or hold the breast inside your mouth (but avoid their touch with your teeth) and lick the nipple and the areola with circular moves of your tongue. With one hand you can hold the respective breast, and with the other hand hold the second breast (and prepare it for being licked as well) or caress her genital or other part of her body.
Touching without hands
You can caress with all parts of the body. The forehead can climb down from head to toes. The nose can draw more complex itineraries, smelling the body's natural perfume, and even be inserted into her genital (later on, if you decide to go down on her). The hair (especially the female's long one) can walk wherever you want: on the face, body, genitals, thighs. With her longer hair, the female offers the most feminine of the caresses. But even the hair can be the center of specific caresses. The hair covered skin enjoys all kind of massage and stimulation created with fantasy. It appreciates even the nails' pressure, with the spread and curved fingers.
Yes to the slow moves, no to the pauses
The caresses in a certain body area must continue with caresses on other erogenous zones without losing the touch. When such contact is suddenly interrupted, the partner feels for a moment an abandon, an uncertainty. When you want to cease caressing, you don't have to do it suddenly, at least leave the hand in a static position on the lover's body for several seconds. And while touching, the hand must switch from one type of caress to another one with slow moves, with gentle changes of rhythm. When you have to end the massage, do it with gentle and intermittent thrills.
What is the "gate of paradise"
Down on the spine, the buttocks form a small hole in the upper side, that can be defined as the "gate of paradise": its careful and accurate stimulation can lead to reactions close to the point of no return. You can enter this gate, but you run the risk of ending the caresses phase. Who surpasses the "paradise gate" gets close to the fold under the buttock, place of sweet sensations. Continuing this itinerary, you will arrive at the skin of the legs, particularly sensitive for females. Thrilling the back side of the thighs and of the knee inner hole leads to hot sensations.
The pleasure at the feet
The feet are sensitive and can be envisaged by hands or mouth. Around the ankles, on both sides of the Achilles' heel, there are two cavities particularly sensitive to thrills and scratchings. The heel can be pinched and kissed (you could also gently bite it). The feet must simply be thrilled with the fingers or nails. Instead, the sole is the most difficult part to be touched because it's very sensitive to tickles. Therefore, you must touch it with increased pressure and strong kisses. Under the heel there is the point stimulated during acupuncture sessions, offering sexual strength. The toes can be kept between the thumb and forefinger, and offered delicate massage, kisses or pinches.
In order to receive you need to give
In order to achieve the maximum joy, the one who caresses must pay all his attention to the other one. Far from being altruistic, the skin contact is a selfish thing. The erotic pleasure could be defined as the peak of egocentrism fallen in the maximum altruism. The one who receives caresses must show his/her own joy in order to enthusiast the partner. If, on the contrary, the attitude is passive or, worst, indifferent, the giving person's enthusiasm will melt. Touching someone who doesn't react is like talking to a dead person. And anyway, you cannot fool the sense of touch: the giving person (and who will receive later or at the same time) perceives the desire and pleasure, but also the repulsion, fear and lack of warmth, what else you need can be found at Free Porn Pictures , Reality Sex Sites or AllInternal Porn or even more huge dicks little chicks .
Caresses for him
The best caress, able to lead a male to pleasure instantly is the one focused on his genitals.
How to release the male Eros
The male's pleasure breaks loose suddenly, without much prelude, with a strong intensity. There is only one limit: knowing when to stop in order not to bring him on the brink of the orgasm. If you reach the point of no return and decide to stop the caresses and arousing, the male experiences an unpleasant sensation. Therefore you must be careful with the erotic games, paying attention to his reactions. When the desire seems to go too far, you must interrupt the caresses or change them. Knowing to stop at the right moment means being able to prolongue the pleasure. Thus, the male learns to control himself and wait, in the preliminaries, for the female to be aroused, too. An experienced female and a pacient male can thus prolongue the caresses for a long time. And the tenderness arising from these gestures is useful for both lovers. The attention paid by her to his genitals can have various purposes. In the beginning, it can simply be an invitation from the female eager to make love. It can be the prelude of a sexual intercourse; in this case, the female wishes to reach a maximum arousal of the male in order to achieve a higher degree of pleasure. But it can also be a perfect remedy against fatigue and preoccupations that often prevent males from achieving pleasure.
The virility requires tenderness
Many men can be hurt in their own virility because of a disillusion or a sentimental failure which makes more fragile. These episodes have a relevant importance having in view the symbolic value of the male genitals. It's not only about the penis. It's also the falus, i.e. the virility symbol. In ancient times, this last one was venerated, representing the transcedental and magical virility. And legends, even religions, are inspired by collective subconcious. Even nowadays, the penis can be considered as more than the virile part and preserves a supernatural mean that transcend the rational one. It's obvious the decisive role of the female in a male's life: her behavior towards the male's penis can hurt, destroy or save him. The clever women who really know how to love adore the body of their partner, even in its more intimate parts, exactly as much as men venerate a female body. It's not a question of accepting the principle of male supremacy, but in a situation of sexual equality, of recognizing the right value of the male genitals, of offering them tenderness and gratitude. This way, the female should not only play, but also deepen her knowledge caressing and adoring it. Even it may seem unbelievable, the male who is told he has the most beautiful penis in the world feels great and adores the one who appreciates the centre of his ego. By touching this part of the body, the female actively participates to the sexual exchange: she ends the passiveness and finally becomes a pleasure giver. And she can personally check her own capacity of being a lover.
The gestures that make a male happy
The caresses over a male have nuances that can be perceived only by himself. The female does not know them instinctively and doesn't perform them as he would do all by himself. Therefore, the male should explain the right spots, the correct moves, the pressure, the rhythm and duration. Those zones have to be gently stimulated. The caresses include all types of thrills: with the finger tips or with a pressure or the whole hand. The pressure can be continuous or discontinuous, over a spot or with small moves.
For her
Enough men do not know how to obtain pleasure for their partners from the caresses over intimate parts of the female body. They know little about female sensuality. Instead, they should get to know what offers pleasure to their companions, making an effort to perceive the shades of their sensitivity.
It's better not in a hurry
Caressing does not necessarily mean reaching intercourse or orgasm. If you start from the idea that it is not compulsory that an intercourse have an end, that you can both touch yourselves only for the pleasure of touching, you can broaden the range of sensations and desire. If the female reaches the orgasm, everything is OK. If she has a complete sexual contact, with joyful moments besides the intercourse itself, it's even better. But even in such cases, it's not necessary that the intercourse end right after the climax. The "free caress", i.e. the one without a particular aim, gives a new meaning to sensuality. When you don't want to reach the orgasm, you must avoid the point of no return, by limiting the stimulation. But if you surpass it, you must continue until the climax. In no way the male should unilaterally stop the lovemaking. And if he reaches climax earlier than expected, he should try to compensate his lover up to a balanced situation. Some men think they are capable of prolonguing the arousal. But if you start from the principle that a caress is not a race towards a precise target, you can manage to slow down your own passion. What happens when the female has the necessary desire but cannot achieve pleasure? He must offer her a lot of tenderness, caressing her all.
Women prefer it like this
The caresses over the most intimate places of the female must be gentle, following the natural lines with tenderness. No other touch is so delicate. Many males ignore the existence of the clitoris. And enough males do not know how to stimulate it. However, females request to be caressed more and better. But they should also decide to surpass the false prejudice and the useless shyness, and express their need of caresses. The most sensitive spots, pressure, moves, more correct rhythm, are found through practice, "monitoring" the reactions of the partner: the breathe, words and moves are all proof of pleasure.
That moment of extasy
This is the most intense experience of pleasure. The word "orgasm" comes from the Greek "orgasmos" and means full of passion. This experience is very close to the state of trance. It seizes the conscience, cancels all thoughts and notion of time and space. It's exaltation and spell. Women have only one orgasm, understood as acute pleasure. It's the one that concerns the genitals. The clitoridian pleasure is better located, the most acute and intense. It's an electrifying sensation. The vaginal pleasure is more diffuse and profound. It takes control over the mind and carries a major content.
Impetuous sensations until the last breath
During an intimate contact the respiratory activity changes according to the sensations felt. And it takes typical forms: nasal when the arousal is not at its peak yet, oral when it's more intense. The pleasure is "whispered" also from the breathing rhythm. Profound and ample inspiring alternates with the moments when the air is kept inside. It's released with a sudden expiration. The air passing through the throat can cause sighs, soft and other suggestive sounds. When the pleasure reaches its climax, it can be checked one or more ample expirations which signal the end of the tension and the return to tranquility. They are sighs of satisfaction. The vocal sounds can be taken as breathing sounds. It's all a language impossible to be described but intelligible to all people in love, as the ear goes directly to the heart.
And the moves? They vary. The caressed area can become imobile, as for an abandon, or stretched towards the hand as for offering itself and demanding more pleasure. Even the areas more remote from the caressed ones can enjoy this. The head, for example, can turn from one side to the other, the hand can move or knead the partner's back, the legs can vibrate, alternately bending and stretching, the body can bend and the words can accompany the hands indicating the parts of the body that offer the most intense pleasure. The erogenous zones, the gradual reach of pleasure and its intensity degree can be easily perceived even by a blind or deaf partner, because the skin has its own clear and precise language. The part which is pleasantly thrilled is charged with "electric" and "magnetic" sensitivenes. People in fact can perceive even blindfolded the quality of an object, its heat degree and shades just by touching it. The touch has an ample range of sensorial nuances, more than the other senses. Therefore the pleasure is read with the touch.
Having all these in view, caressing should have a new meaning for you and your partner, and therefore you should take care next time you find yourself alone to share your tendernes through caresses. Our bodies are hungry for them, and they should be therefore part of our sentimental and erotic "diet".
Free sex photos !
Next page: caresses .
© Copyright 1999. All rights
reserved.
Copyright notice! You may not use any part of this
material without the author's express written permission!
Natural Penis Enlargement , Vip Teen Sex , Honey Porn , Busty Mature Wives , That's Porn
Watch Escorts Argentina and more Adult Sex Toys , Blowjobs , Messy Facials and Gagging Girls .
And yet more XXX Sex Links from FREE Babes in free porn sites such as Backseat Banger with HOT HARDCORE XXX and XXX Adult Links .
Are You A Moviepervert ? Then take a look at Qtts TGP Sites and Qttsclips Free Sites
. Watch porn
, Free Porn
, Sexual Health , free adult
pictures .
Watch daily
sex movies and free sex movies at Red Spot XXX
Links .
Check out Juges Bikini , 4 Free Screensavers , VigRX PenisPills , Nude Celeb Hound , Free Porn Pictures , Free Sex Galleries , Penis Enlargement Methods , Free Penis Enlargement , as well as Free Adult Videos . Also check out Free Girls Pictures TGP , Adult webcams , Free porn pictures , Adult Porn Directory , Free xxx porn , plus some Free Porn , Free Porn Gallery Post , Thumbz Mania , Nice Free Pics and Sexxx Free Pics Tgp . Watch adult dvds and fucking porn movies . See free big tits , Hardcore sex , xxx videos and free porn clips .