Anal sex
Probably the most commonly thought of anal positions is "doggie style" anal sex videos and anal sex pictures , where the receiving partner kneels on all fours and the inserting partner approaches from the rear.
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A variation of the popular doggie style position in which the giver stands behind the receiver (instead of kneeling) and places their feet outside the legs of the receiver. You'll find that the giver will be positioned higher and will be inserting into the anus in a more downward fashion (you're almost in mid-leap if you were playing leapfrog). The receiver will keep their legs closer together (for vaginalsex, this helps to "tighten" the vagina - for analsex, it actually tends to loosen the anus, as the receiver's anus has less pressure on it). Take care to start slowly, as the different angle of approach will stimulate different areas of the anus.
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The standard missionary style position (man on top, partner on bottom) is actually also the best beginner position for analsex, as it allows the receiver to fully relax the anus, making penetration much easier. To get the best angle, try propping a few pillow under the receiver's anus. You'll be amazed at how much easier this makes analsex!
This position puts the receiver on top and the giver on the bottom. You might think that this is the best beginner position, since it gives the receiver control over how much - how fast, but being on top actually causes the receiver to involuntarily tighten up the anus, making penetration difficult. If you're the receiver, make sure to slowly lower yourself down, as too quick a drop can be very painful. If you're careful, this position can be very pleasurable for the receiver, since they control the motion. If you're the giver (on the bottom), resist the urge to thrust upward.
Available only to women as a receiver, the art of double penetration can bring extreme pleasure to the woman. Because the anus is highly sensitive and there are many shared sexual nerve endings between the walls of the vagina and the anus, simultaneous stimulation can be quite erotic. Naturally, this positoin either requires two givers, or the use of a vibrator or dildo. It's best to get the first insertion done into the vagina, then proceed to the anal insertion.
Double penetration can be performed in a variety of positions, most of them having the receiver sandwiched between the two givers. She can be doggie style, laying on her back, laying on her front or even standing. It's best to experiement a bit to find the most comfortable and rewarding position.
Another good beginner position is side anal, where the receiver lays on their side and the giver approaches from the rear. The receiver can relax the anus and the giver can easily access the entire anal area. You can also try this one face to face, although the giver has to be careful not to put too much weight on the receiver's lower leg in this case.
The Kama Sutra is an ancient text that teaches us to how to maximize our pleasure during lovemaking. It also teaches that analsex is not "taboo" or forbidden. Rather, analsex is looked upon as a key to releasing certain sexual and physical energies. The receiver is said to enter a state of "kinetic bliss", while the giver experiences the joy of intense stimulation.
For the most basic anal Kama Sutra position, the giver should be flat on their back, with the receiver on top facing the feet of the giver (imagine doggie style with the giver laying down). The receiver should lean as far toward the feet as possible, then commence regular sexual pumping. This angle tends to maximize anal pleasure while delaying orgasm in the giver.
In this position, the giver approaches the receiver from behind, similar to doggie style, but lifts the receiver's legs into the air. The receiver must support themselves with their arms only or lay flat on a bed or chair. The giver holds the receiver's legs on either side, as though lifting a wheel barrel. But be careful, this position gives the giver an incredible amount of leverage to go deep!
Analingus
Analingus is the act of licking or inserting the tongue into the anus to provide pleasure. Both men and women enjoy analingus and you can use some of the same techniques on each. This is differenet from cunnilingus - read a cunnilingus tutorial here.
Try to get into a position where the receiver's butt cheeks are naturally spread. Having them kneel on all fours (doggie style) with their legs spread apart, or on their back with their legs up in the air (again, legs spread apart). You may also use your - or their - hands to spread the cheeks and give you better access to the anus.
Different people like different techniques, so you're best off experimenting with several of those listed below to see which your partner enjoy's most. It's also good to remember that most people won't orgasm by anal sex alone, so you should keep analingus fairly brief or keep them stimulated in some other way at the same time.
Flicking: Gently flick the
tip of the tongue across the outer rim of the anus.
Ringing the Bell: Push your tongue against the anus, then
remove it, as though you were ringing a doorbell.
Licking: Use your full tongue to lick completely across
the anus. This one may surprise you.
Probing: Insert the tongue as far into the anus as you
can, then probe around with the tip. When you find their pleasure
centers, probe some more.
Finally, it's not a good idea to perform oral sex or even kissing after analingus, as bacteria from the anus can wreak havoc on other parts of the body. Make sure to clean your mouth thoroughly after analingus (brush and use Listerine).
How to have analsex:
To get ready for analsex, the first thing the receiver needs to do is relax. A hot bath or a massage beforehand is always a good idea to get prepared. The sphincter muscles around the anus won't let anything pass comfortably unless they're relaxed.
Discuss the limits, expectations and techniques of your anal experience beforehand. There's nothing worse than surprises during analsex. Make sure you and your partner are on the same page every step of the way.
It's a good idea to have a bowel movement about an hour before analsex, to make sure you don't run into anything you don't want to. You should also bathe the area, to remove any traces left by regular wiping. An enema is nice - and very thorough - but is not necessary for clean analsex.
Because there is a very fine line between pain and pleasure during anal intercourse, we suggest that you begin your anal explorations very slowly and proceed at a leisurely pace that will allow to experience and appreciate each level of insertion.
It's a good idea to start with some external stimulation, either using a finger or with a little analingus. Make sure you have plenty of lubrication, as even the slightest bit of dryness can cause a very painful snag.
Begin insertion by using a finger or other small object. Proceed little by little, carefully watching the reaction of the receiver. Do everything you can to keep it pleasurable. You may find that it will take several sessions before you can even proceed to anything more than a finger.
Once you proceed to something bigger (ie., a penis, dildo or butt plug), you'll need to revisit the lubrication issue and be even more careful with the speed. The key for the receiver is to relax the anus and the sphincter - breathing outward during insertion can help quite a bit here. The more the receiver relaxes, the easier insertion is. As the giver, ease each little bit in and slowly withdraw until the receiver can handle normal sexual pumping action.
More so than in any other form of sex, proper lubrication is essential in the enjoyment of anal intercourse. Every time you insert anything into the anus, from a finger to a penis, you're likely to tear tissue walls along the sides (much like you do to the inside of your mouth every time you brush your teeth). The more lubricant you use, the less damage you do each time.
Sufficient to say, you can't overlubricate when it comes to anal intercourse.
You'll find that long lasting oil based lubricants work best for anal intercourse, but the drawback for oil based lubricants is that they will damage a latex based condom. Oil based lubricants last longer than water based lubricants. Since you must be very careful in regard to STDs with anal intercourse, you should only use oil based lubricants if you are with a mutually monogamus partner. Water based lubricants will get the job done, but you may need to reapply frequently during anal intercourse.
Though many men are reluctant to admit it, most find some sort of anal stimulation to be erotically stimulating. Even non- gay sex men report that inserting a finger or butt plug into the anus during sex causes incredible, throbbing orgasms.
To understand why, we must examine the role of the prostate in male orgasm. The prostate is the organ responsible for producing a good part of a man's ejaculate. Located inside the body, in the region between the anus and the base of the scrotum, the prostate is primarily accessable through the anus. Inserting a finger into a man's anus up to about the second knuckle (as you are facing him), then curling the finger slightly towards yourself will give you direct contact and stimulation of most men's prostate gland.
You'll find that as a man ejaculates (did you know there's a female ejaculation as well?), the entire area around the prostate, including the anus (especially if you have your finger in it), will throb noticeably. Stimulating this area even lightly during orgasm causes a man to have uncontrollable orgasmic spasms. Often, men will experience much longer periods of orgasm and will ejaculate with far greater intensity and volume.
This phenomenon caused the creation and popularity of the butt plug, a cone shaped plug that is inserted into a man's anus during sex and left in position until orgasm.
A small percentage of men and women can achieve actual male and female orgasm through exclusive anal stimulation (ie., anal stimulation alone). Though many men and women enjoy and take great pleasure in anal stimulation, it is most often in conjunction with normal sexual activities, the orgasm is simply heightened by analsex. But there are a select few for whom the anal bell tolls and tolls alone. They can achieve orgasm from anal stimulation alone. In men, this is attributed to the proximity of the prostate and other ejaculate producing organs. In women, it is attributed to the closeness of vaginal and anal nerve endings, especially those that border on each other.
Most people find that analsex is a tremendous tool to enhance their regular sex activities. In a majority of cases, the actual anal intercourse is used in conjunction with a variety of other sexual activities and positions.
Anal Activities on a Man
While performing oral sex on a man, try stimulating the perenium
(the area between the base of the scrotum and the anus) first, as
almost all men enjoy this. Work your way down to the anus and
begin circling the outer rim of the anus. If all goes well,
slowly insert your finger up to your first knuckle. Keep a close
eye on your partner to make sure he's enjoying it. Proceed
slowly. Depending on the man, you may only be able to get one
knuckle deep before he's uncomfortable, or you may find that he
enjoys an entire finger (or two - or three). During orgasm in a
man, the perenium and the anus become highly charged orgasmic
centers of pleasure. Each man is different, but if you locate his
"sweet spot" down there, you can give him intense,
lasting orgasms.
Anal Activities on a Woman
For an easy introduction to anal intercourse on a woman, try a
little light stimulation of the outer rings of the anus during
regular intercourse or during oral sex. Anal stimulation can be
extremely pleasurable to a woman during regular intercourse.
Certain women report surging, lasting orgasms when anal
stimulation is added to regular sex. ve the receiving parther lie
on their back with their knees in the air. The inserting parther
should kneel or lie facing the receiving parner and insert at an
angle that is comfortable to both. In this position, the
receiving partner can relax several gay muscles necessary for
pleasurable analsex.
To the Inserting Partner: Make sure to take your time as you are first inserting into the anus. Guage your partner's facial reaction before you go all out.
Anal hygiene
Important: Having unprotected anal intercourse is the leading venue for the transmission of the HIV/AIDS virus. Before any type of anal intercourse activity, it is imperative that you take proper measures to protect yourself and your partner.
Preparatory Bowel Movements
It's a good idea to have a bowel movement several hours before
anal intercourse (if possible). This will vastly decrease the
liklihood of running into something unpleasant and will clean out
most of the residual matter in the anus.
Cleaning the Anus
At the very least, make sure to clean the anus thoroughly with
hot, soapy water before any anal activities. You can even use a
finger to massage soapy water slightly inside the rim of the
anus. This will also help to relax the outer muscles of the
sphincter.
Anal Enemas
An anal enema is essentialy a surge of water into the anus that
looses residual matter and flushes the area. While a full anal
enema will certainly be able to clean where you're otherwise not
likely to reach, they're fairly uncommon overall. However, there
are people who find anal enemas sexually stimulating. If you
enjoy it, or can at least handle it, they're a good idea to
reduce residual matter. Allow at least 2 hours before anal
intercourse for the anal enema to have full effect. Also, it's
not good to perform frequent anal enemas as this can put undo
stress on the anus.
Enemas do NOT eliminate ALL bacteria and germs from the anus.
Bacteria
The entire anal region is rich in a variety of bacteria that,
suffice to say, belong only in the anus. You don't want to
contaminate other areas of your body by inserting ANYTHING that
has been into the anus into ANY other orifice of the body.
Using Condoms
Due to the ease of transmission of STD's, including HIV/AIDS,
condoms have become an essential part of careful anal
intercourse. Take care to use water based lubricants with latex
condoms - an oil based lube will destroy the condoms .
Anal anatomy
Two closely spaced muscle rings, called sphincters surround the anal opening. The outer sphincter is controlled like any muscle, you can contract or relax it at will. The inner sphincter is goverened involuntarily and it responds to fear and anxiety, causing the receiving partner to tense up the inner sphincter. You can learn to control the inner sphincter by inserting a finger into the anus while in the shower and concentrating on the muscle group.
Richly endowed with nerve endings, the anus is also interconnected with the pelvic muscles and is known to contract rhythmically during orgasm.
First anal porn experience:
Most people find that analsex is a tremendous tool to enhance their regular sex activities. In a majority of cases, the actual analsex is used in conjunction with a variety of other sexual activities and positions. A little anal stimulation is almost always welcomed during oral sex (try using your finger around and even in the anus while you are performing oral sex with your mouth).
For your first anal experience, make sure you have a good lubricant. If you hope to eventually insert a condom, make sure that lubricant is water based. If you're only using your tongue/fingers/toys, you'll find that an oil based lube works best with the least mess. Also, you'll want to have a paper towel or rag handy just in case.
Make sure both partners shower or thoroughly wash the anus with warm, soapy water. If possible, a bowel movement 2-3 hours prior to analsex is recommended.
Anal Activities on a Man
While performing oral sex on a man, try stimulating the perenium
(the area between the base of the scrotum and the anus) first, as
almost all men enjoy this. Work your way down to the anus and
begin circling the outer rim of the anus. If all goes well,
slowly insert your finger up to your first knuckle. Keep a close
eye on your partner to make sure he's enjoying it. Proceed
slowly. Depending on the man, you may only be able to get one
knuckle deep before he's uncomfortable, or you may find that he
enjoys an entire finger (or two - or three). During orgasm in a
man, the perenium and the anus become highly charged orgasmic
centers of pleasure. Each man is different, but if you locate his
"sweet spot" down there, you can give him intense,
lasting orgasms. If you can find the prostate (about 2 inches
deep), many men enjoy stimulation here.
Anal Activities on a Woman
Women enjoy analsex for different biological reasons then men. In
a woman, the nerve centers of the vagina and the anus share
several common walls and paths. When stimulated together, women
can experience enhanced pleasure and extremely intense orgasms.
Double penetration (simultaneous insertion into the anus and
vagina) has become popular because the two shafts are seperated
by only a thin wall which is loaded with sexual nerve endings.
When the shafts collide, those sexually charged nerve endings
send wave after wave of pleasure throughout the body. Women also
enjoy exclusive anal stimulation, both around the rim of the anus
and insertion and penetration.
Fingering the Anus
Before fingering (not fisting ) the anus, make sure your fingernails are trimmed tight and you have the proper lubrication. A little spit is better than nothing. You can use any finger you like, but the difference in size (except for the thumb) is not as great as you'd imagine. You're better off using a finger that you're comfortable controlling, rather than starting with a pinky. You can use many of the same techniques that you would during analingus to finger the anus. The most popular are detailed below.
Circling the Rim: Probably
the tamest and easiest analsex technique to introduce someone to
analsex is to start on the outside and slowly work your way in.
Use one finger to gently circle the outer rim of the anus. A
little lube is helpful here, especially if you want to lead up to
some actual insertion.
Ringing the Bell: Take one finger and push on the anus, as
though you were ringing a doorbell. Hold each push down for a
second or two before releasing.
Thrusting: Again, make sure your finger is properly lubed,
then start slowly inserting a little bit at a time into the anus.
Move in and out with a thrusting motion, similar to penetration
during sex.
Multiple Fingers: For the anal expert, you may be able to
get two, three or even more fingers into the anus. Try wiggling
your fingers in different directions once they're inside!
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